Overdependency in a relationship

 The main reason why people dates is because there is strong chemistry called love,however, for one to be happy one must respect their partner. In this world where men are given names like dogs, relationship has taken a different direction. Most ladies are misled on how to go about in a relationship,so you are told to be strong,confident,unwavering and a go-getter. They tell you to be vocal in your opinions and stand your ground, perhaps they tell you how men are dogs and no one should take you for a ride or control you.
And with this mindset, you go into a dating zone and then it gets rock hard to get a man who suits your thinking. Next thing you go all about social media saying "why is it hard to find a real man?" It is very well to be that strong they way you were told but don't go into a relationship with the mindset that no one should take advantage of you. You get a man and then give him ground rules as if he is being recruited in American army and you don't open your heart because you are being too vigilant having in mind that men comes and go. Don't be overdependent and don't be way too forward.When you are overdependent in a relationship it means you are self sufficient and need nothing to be complete. This can be wrong because your man will not serve any purpose in your relationship and can as well turn to be bad to your expectation. Being too forward can be dangerous, some men love the chase and it makes them respect and appreciate you more.